March 31, 2009 by Mz. Lucinda.

Hello to you all,

Its a quiet in sub/slave land still… well give or take the odd time waster ~laughs~

Despite the demise of felicity ~rolls eyes~ there are some shining lights in My world…. yes really there are.

For starters there is dave…. oh how he made Me laugh last night … when faced with a set task of putting on either slut red or baby pink lipstick, pouting and taking a picture of himself to send to me he begged to be fined instead ~laughs~

I was still chuckling hours after and wished I could have been a fly on the wall to see his face as he read the task ~giggles~

Then I have austin, who can be a bit stroppy at times but he is learning that to not obey displeases Me and he suffers….. sometimes he fails to realise that he cant just tell Me that he has decided to alter his given orders ..but in general he does please Me.

Isnt Amazon strange… there I was perusing the George Foreman grills when one captured My eye ..so I ordered it then after 3 days up pops an e mail to say the sellers had cancelled the order for no apparent reason !!!!!! Amazon were just as puzzled as Me and will be lookign into it to see if the sellers had breached their contract with them…..but Im still without My George Forman grill, mind you AFTER I had ordered it a few of My friends said they were not worth buying !!!

Im also considering a sat nav … I know nothing at all about sat navs ~laughs~ but I know a hell of a lot about getting lost in strange towns !!!!

Kettering man seems to be behaving himself…for now ..I wonder how long it will last ~smiles~

I know some of you like online sessions but its no good just contacting Me and expecting Me to be instantly free for you ….I do My best to fit you needy boys in but I do want some advance notice or you will be dissappointed.~smiles~

In the ansence of a genuine domestic maid I had to do give My place a thorough cleaning including washing windows ..its all spotlessly clean now but I have noticed that the bathroom could do with painting and one of the walls in the kitchen needs another coat of paint….so any of you slaves who are dedictaed and willing to assist, e mail Me …..

***please note this does NOT mean you can do a rubbish job in the vain hope of getting a play session..that silly ploy will not work, I want the job done properly***

I do at times mull over in My mind how married subs and slaves cope with any guilt feelings about having sessions ….. is the way round it  to only have one session per Domme…so it doesnt make it feel like you are being unfaithful or if it just a need that you can keep supressed for so long then just HAVE to feed the need ??

Personaly I like to build up a connection with any slaves and subs I session with, this means finding out a bit about them, what makes them tick, their real likes and dislikes not just BDSM..yes that applies to the married ones also.It gives Me a deeper understanding of their needs and desires. See its not cold and heartless at all as far as Im concerned and that is why YOUR honesty is important and your devotion ~laughs#

I have never given up the ideal that one day something could develop with a slave/sub and he would become My personal slave…devoted to only Me…. yes even on a live in basis but that is not really the foremost part of it…..whoever he could be, would have to be independent, solvent, fully supportive in what I do and certainly NOT some clinging vine who was attentions seeking morning noon and night ..hell that would be horrendous.

I called the above My ideal… because far to many out there just think ooohhh instant free sessions with sex …WRONG…..those of you who think that can move along RIGHT NOW.

Any sexual side of the relationship would take time to develop and that means for as long as it takes till I decide to move things along to that level.,,I want My slave to be a companion first THEN to be there for My sexual pleasure when I require him.

Recently a specific sub who I sessioned with kept insisting he was very tactile and making suggestions about taking things further… THAT is the biggest turn OFF for Me… I dont want some alleged sub/slave trying to maul and paw Me….in fact it could even result in Me ending a session right there and then……so be warned.

Im looking avidly at summer holidays … any subs/slaves wishing to accompany Me ( yes you pay for your own holiday and Me perhaps ~smiles~) should contact Me and again be fully aware that there will be NO SEX, you will be My holiday slave companion.

I am thinking August/Septenber…in a private villa on a Greek Island ..this would have a pool and possibly allow for some play sessions…I would want to meet you several times beforehand and get to know you… The actual holiday would be booked together and if you back out thats your own fault.

Well thats food for thought for you all.

Be good and contact Me soon for those sessions…real time, online or phone.

Mz Lucinda x x

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March 24, 2009 by Mz. Lucinda.

Hello slaves and subs, sissy maids etc,

Yes yes dave you get a Happy Birthday for yesterday on here also ..Ive got dave by the balls ha ha  x

There seems a distint lack of slaves and subs wanting real time sessions at present …WHY ?

Have you all turned vanilla ???

I want a slave to chastise, flog, cane and spank.

I want a sub or slave to tie up, tease, use heat creams and hot wax on.

I want a sub or slave to use for face sitting ( with My underwear ON ).

I want domestic slaves, sissy maids , subs who enjoy forced feminisation.

subs and slaves need to be spanked and used daily so they know their place….is that what you want ???

GET IN TOUCH AND BOOK YOUR SESSIONS ..dont sit at home  day dreaming and wanking.

We can discount the idiots and morons like sir_loin_1976 ..the biggest wanker walking ..well ok one of the biggest ….hes a bit confused ..well calls himself sir and wanted to have a phone sesion with Me ..but oh dear he could only use paypal ( I dont take paypal ) so I pointed him in the direction of a site that accepted paypal and sent gift vouchers…..BUT I already remembered his past bullshit and scams so I was ready for sir bullshit.

First off he sends me 4 e mails insisting it was the voucher .. tut tut silly wankstain didnt know I allready knew how that site operated ..all he was doing was pretending to buy.

Then he says he has paid for them and sent a code to me …yet again sir wankstain didnt know Id had vouchers from their before and that was a totaly WRONG code he sent me in yahoo chat.

Then he pretends he has done it and its gonna be sent to his house and his wiofe will find it ..BUT sir wankstain hadnt actually registered and paid for it because even the biggest thicko on earth could not have failed to see the HUGE words saying * do you want to add a new address*

So there we have him sir wankstain ..sobbing and sniffling that his wife is going to be getting a www.yoursclothing.co.uk gift voucher and how will he explain it …of course he was lying..hed lied 4 times in 20 mins.

Like a fish I was reeling him in …see long before now id tried to forward one of his e mails back to him and it bounced back… ohhh dear, the false code that did not belong to the site he was on, the lies about already paying …he kept getting confused saying ive paid …honest ! i have then saying oh i will just pay for it now ~laughs~

So am I really going to give him My real address when hes told so many lies and even when Ive told him I know hes lying he still carries on with it ~laughs~

People like him dont make me angry… I dont feel anything for them ..well sadness that they are born liars …BUT sir_loin_1976 you are merely a wanker but do take note… you were rumbled last time …MAKE A LIST and keep track of who you try and scam, that way you wont look such a tit.ha ha ha

Ohhh another one that made me laugh * its_a_shaw_thing * contacts me on msn saying he has seen me on Informed Consent site…he isnt a member himself but has spoken to Me in the chat room ……silly little boy, if you are not a site member you can NOT get in the chat room .

They lie so easily but are caught out far far easily.

spencer My naughty boy has moved on to someone else…hed been in contact with and seeing somone else for a long while and as I was only his online phone session Domme..he dropped contact…not really nice and if i hadnt asked him if he was ok as he was so quiet he would not have told me he was in love with the other Domme and her with him……I had thought he had more manners than that ..but obviously not..besides as he pointed out , she didnt charge him !!!

felicity is still away … well its been 12 days now..not the 8/9 she said…. she had sais she would be back by the 25th which is the anniversay date …but there is no hope of that now.

I have to be realisitc and for all I know she could have just vanished into the ether never to be in contact again…that will be a shame as I was fond of felicity…but these things happen..the slave gets scared, their wife/girlfriend finds out, they use any excuse to drop out of contact then move one to the next Domme.

After tomorrow I consider I have given her enough time to make contact ..she has not gone to outer mongolia for fucks sake…I will send her a text and voice message, if i get no response I will call it a day with her because she has shown total disregard to my feelings.

So I may well have a new place for a sissy maid companion…watch this space….

My e bay slave is progressing slowly… he forgets his manners, can be sarcastic and rude and doesnt send me an e mail because his mate wants himt o get down to the pub or hes going home …… well he will learn sooner or later that he gets fined for his bad behaviour…rewards are only for when he pleases Me and is not trying to top from the bottom.

Im sure there was much more to tell you all but I need to get on with My day so I will return later.

Oh for those who wish to tribute ,,,you can use the following methods.

www.amazon.co.uk  ..e mail gift certificates send to my hotmail.co.uk e mail .. domme_of_your_soul@hotmail etc 

www.marsksandspencers.com  purchase gift cards in store or online and forward to My e  mail address  the gioft card code and pin. ( yes you need to register )

www.yoursclothing.co.uk …register and send online gift vouchers by e mail using My hotmail address OR  to send *in store* vouchers ( my preference )  contact Me for details of where to send them.

Remember you can have real time, phone sessions, online sessions or e mail training…. the fees are on My website on the sessions and fees page.

Byeeeee for now boys

Mz Lucinda x    

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March 18, 2009 by Mz. Lucinda.

Good evening all,

Total control … yes the ultimate desire of many subs and slaves..is it what you want ??

For Me to take control of what you do on a daily basis, what you eat and drink, when you go to bed at night…how  you spend your time when not at work…control your sexual urges also.

You would work hard to keep me happy .. tribute Me monthly for the attention I give to you…strive for bonuses to lavish Me with extra luxuries.

Have you got what it takes to be that slave ??

If you have then contact Me … mz_lucinda_xxx@ yahoo.co.uk ( no gap after the @ )

Yes you will make a modest tribute BEFORE I devote time to you… dont whinge and sigh.. you didnt expect Me to spend hours detailing what you will do and wont do only to have you vanish with your heart desire of a fantasy.

I will be looking forward to seeing who has the determination and commitment to go for it and suceed.

Time for you lazy subs and slaves to visit Me for sessions…flogging, cbt, humiliation, forced feminisation,bondage….. take up your position and be ready for a thorough spanking.

Mz Lucinda

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